Online Dating Advice for Women on safely Meeting Single Men

Dating tips and advice for men on how to place personals ads and respond to personals that help meet girls on the Internet

Internet dating is quite safe if you follow a few simple common sense guidelines

Detailed online dating advice especially for ladies, and tips for using personals safely Hiya Girls! As you may notice, our sites are geared towards men, but we sometimes get a thousand hits a day from you curious females so we thought we'd better make sure you have you're own corner. Beside, men need all the help they can get! Now girls, if you're going to try online dating, prepare to be deluged with more suitors than you ever dreamed possible! The Internet is still male-dominated, (not much longer) and this time, that's to your advantage! Certain facts about men and women are not going to change, and that most men will look first for a pretty face, is one of them. So, if you are looking for a man who is interested in YOU...your mind, heart and spirit, in addition to your gorgeous mug, then your ad must be crafted to attract the type of man you seek.

So my lady, who are you and what do you want? What sort of man do you desire? Think about it, ponder it, make it concrete. Make a list of everything that is important to you that would sustain a long lasting relationship. This may take some time, but time worth spending. A few hours, days or even weeks is but a mere blip in the overall scheme of things when compared to spending years in misery with an incompatible man, or a lifetime with your soulmate. Opt for the latter and do your homework!

Common Sense Internet Dating Tips and Advice for Females.



Online dating is very popular these days, and getting more so by the millions. About 40 million people are now using Internet dating sites to find love, sex, and romance. But while dating online has the advantages in its own, over the period of time this has been misused and is corrupted by many disadvantages. Online Dating is fun and convenient but still one has to be very careful while dating with someone over the net. Here are some tips which may help you and be a guide for safe and sound online dating.

1. Start slow. While dating over the net, watch out for someone who seems too good to be true. Begin by first communicating solely via email. Be on the lookout for odd behavior or inconsistencies. "Listen" to your correspondent's words. The person at the other end may not be who or what he/she says. Trust your instincts. If anything makes you uncomfortable, walk away for your own safety and protection.

2. Guard Your Anonymity. Never include your last name, real email address, personal Web site URL, home address, phone number, place of work, or any other identifying information in your profile or initial emails you exchange with other members. Make sure your email signature file is turned off, or does not include identifying information, when corresponding with a member via your own email. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for this information or attempts in any way to trick you into revealing it. Take all the time you need to become comfortable with someone before revealing any personal contact information. Ask questions and make sure you are satisfied with the answers. Trust your instincts, move cautiously and be selective. 

3. Exercise Caution and Common Sense. Careful, well-thought decisions generally lead to better results in dating, and this is certainly true with online dating too. Guard against trusting the untrustworthy. Any suitor must earn your trust gradually, through consistently honorable, forthright behavior. Your job is to take all the time you need to test for a trustworthy person, and pay careful attention along the way. Take a relatively conservative approach to trusting anyone you meet online. If you think someone is lying, it is likely that they are, so act accordingly. Move on to someone you can eventually trust. Conduct yourself and your romances in a responsible manner. Don't fall in love at the click of a mouse. Don't become prematurely intimate with someone, even if that intimacy only occurs online. 

4. Request a Photo. A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling about your correspondent. In fact, it's best to view several images of this person in a variety of settings: casual, formal, indoor, outdoors. If he or she continuously comes up with an excuse, it may be because that person has something to hide. Getting a photo scanned is not expensive, so there is little excuse for not doing it. 

5. Talk Via Telephone. A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. It is worth the cost of the call to protect your security. But do not give out your personal phone number to a stranger. Try a cell phone number instead for added security. Or make arrangements to call from a pay phone. Only when you feel completely comfortable should you furnish your phone number. 

6. Meet When YOU Are Ready. The beauty of meeting and relating online is that you can gradually collect information and then make a choice about pursuing the relationship in the real world. You are never obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you do decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind. It's possible that your decision to keep the relationship at the anonymous level is based on a hunch that you can't logically explain. Trust yourself. Go with your gut instincts, even when they can't be logically explained. Never meet someone who argues against your instincts, finds logical flaws with your feelings or pressures you in any way. 

7. Watch for Red Flags. Pay attention to any displays of anger, intense frustration or attempts at pressuring or controlling you. Acting in a passive-aggressive manner, making demeaning or disrespectful comments or any physically inappropriate behavior are all red flags. You should also be concerned if your date exhibits any of the following conduct without providing an acceptable explanation: 
  • Provides inconsistent information about age, interests, appearance, marital status, profession, employment
  • Refuses to speak to you over the phone after establishing ongoing, online intimacy. 
  • Fails to provide direct answers to direct questions. 
  • Appears in person to be significantly different from his or her online persona. 
  • Never introduces you to friends, professional associates or family members. 
8. Select the Safest Possible Environment. When you make the choice to meet offline, always tell someone where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with that person. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time when many people are present, and when the date is over, leave on your own as well. A familiar restaurant or coffee shop, at a time when a lot of other people will be present is often a fine choice. Avoid hikes, bike rides or drives in remote areas for the first few dates. If you decide to move to another location, take your own car. When the timing is appropriate, thank your date for getting together and say goodbye. 

9. Take Extra Caution Outside Your Area. If you are flying in from another area, arrange for your own car and a hotel room. Do not disclose the name of your hotel and never allow your date to make the arrangements for you. Rent a car at the airport and drive directly to your hotel. Call your date from the hotel or meet at the location you have already agreed to. If the location seems inappropriate or unsafe, go back to your hotel. Try to contact your date at that location, or leave a message on a home machine. Always make sure a friend or family member knows your plans and has your contact information. And if possible, carry a cell phone at all times. 

10. Get Yourself Out of a Jam. Never do anything you feel unsure about. If you are in any way afraid of your date, use your best judgment to diffuse the situation and get out of there. Excuse yourself long enough to call a friend for advice, ask someone else on the scene for help, or slip out the back door and drive away. If you feel you are in danger call the police. It's always better to be safe than sorry. Never worry or feel embarrassed about your behavior. Your safety is much more important than one person's opinion of you. 

While liars, cheaters and imposters certainly ply their craft on the Web, you'll also find them in nightclubs, among the membership ranks of off-line dating services, at cocktail parties, and occasionally sitting across from you at your local cafe. Regardless of where, or how, you meet someone, dating is never a risk-free activity. A little caution will reduce your risk in these matters of the heart.

Now you are ready to write your personal ad.

Create a 'grabber perk' headline, simply a single descriptive line that is first read along with your foto designed to attract attention to your ad. Avoid the typical, mundane 'DWF, 44, seeks nice stable man'....bla bla bla ... you and 20 million others fit this description. Humor works wonders. Scan other ads and see which ones attract your attention.

Some Real Kick Ass Grabber Headlines and Personal Ads

The following personals were written by our staff for clients in our matchmaking services. Compare these to
" "DWF, 44, nice body seeks nice stable man for walks on the beach and sunset dinners"
*gag* Would you answer that personal ad? Or perhaps:

Copper maned paradox seeks long locked Poetic Savage
Northern female with right number of arms and legs seeks sensitive, floppy-fringed male for glittery emails and perhaps one of those relationship type of things. Me - geeky, book-lover with a penchant for gherkins who likes proper music, sunny days, playing bass guitar (badly), humorous people and purple. You - whatever...Reply with photo appreciated - not that i judge people on their appearance, oh no, that would be far to shallow of me...

I think that computers only disconnect people
Not really *duh* Submissive male seeks dominant female with extensive knowledge of knots Hideous-looking, obese, smelly, ill-tempered, lazy, cowardly, chronic, and a complete liar seeks total opposite.

SWM into chainsaws and hockey masks seek likeminded SWF.
No weirdos, please. Bitter, unsuccessful middle aged loser wallowing in an unending sea of inert, drooping loneliness looking for 24 year old needy leech-like hanger-on to abuse with dull stories, tired sex and Herb Alpert albums. Baby, you are my Tijuana Taxi.

Woke Up on the Wrong Side Reality
Me -- trying to sleep on the bus station bench, pleading with you to give me a cigarette; you-choking on my odor, tripping over your purse trying to get away; at the last moment, our eyes meeting. Yours were blue. Can I have a dollar?

Don't Piss Me Off and Read this Ad!
Three toed mango peeler searching for wicked crossdressing infielder. Like screaming and marking territory with urine? Let's make banana enchiladas together in my bathtub. You bring the salsa.

I could probably conform to your standards
Naw. I like eating mayonnaise and peanut butter sandwiches in the rain, watching Barney Miller reruns, peeing on birds in the park and licking strangers on the subway; you eat beets raw, have climbed Kilimanjaro, and sweat freely and often. Must wear size five shoes.

Single Sock Dreams
There is a little place in the jumbled sock drawer of my heart where you match up all the pairs, throw out the ones with holes in them, and buy me some of those neat dressy ones with the weird black and red geometrical designs on them.

Fickle, Whimsical, and a Walking Contradiction
Angry, simple-minded, balding, partially blind ex-circus flipper boy with a passion for covering lovers in sour cream and fish giblet gravy seeks exotic, heavily tattooed piercing fanatic, preferably hairy and stinky, either sex, for whippings, bizarre sex and fashion consulting. No freaks.

Old Coot Falling and he Can't Keep Up
When I was thirty my dates had to be young, slim, tall, handsome, rich, intelligent. Now I'm 64, they only have to know how to read and use the telephone! If we dont change direction, we may end up where we're going!

Funny Ha Ha Joke Break

Recommended Things "Not To Say" During Sex
  1. Is it in?
  2. That's it?
  3. You've got to be kidding me.
  4. (Phone rings) Hello? oh nothing and you?
  5. Do I have to pay for this?
  6. Do I have to call you tomorrow?
  7. Oh momma, momma!
  8. Oh dadda, dadda!
  9. You look better in the dark.
  10. This is much better than my last girl/boyfriend.
  11. I thought that goes in the other hole....
  12. Don't tell my husband/wife.
  13. You have the same bra my mom does (worse if the girl says it).
  14. This sucks.
  15. Can you finish now? I have a meeting...
  16. I hope you don't expect a raise for this...
  17. I think you might get the job for this.
  18. Damn! is that all you know what to do.
  19. Did I tell you, I have herpes?
  20. Now we must get married.
  21. Hurry up, the games about to start.
  22. I'm hungry.
  23. I'm thirsty.
  24. Zzzzzzzzzzzz.
  25. Are you trying to be funny?
  26. Can I have a ride home after this?
  27. Are those real?
  28. By the way, I want to break up.
  29. Is that smell coming from you?
  30. Haven't you ever done this before?
  31. Wow!! I've never seen those before (then grope wildly).
  32. Do you know what some female spiders do after sex?
  33. You're so much like your sister....
  34. Your mom's cute.
  35. What's your name again?
  36. Do I have to be here in the morning?
  37. A second time? I barely stayed awake the first time!
  38. But you just started!!
  39. You're about as good as a 9 year old, and I should know!!
  40. Don't touch that!!
  41. Can we order a pizza?
  42. I think my dad is listening at the door.
  43. Smile for the camera, honey!!!
  44. Take off that damn monkey glove!!
  45. Get your hand out of there!!
  46. I think the condom broke 10 minutes ago.
  47. I knew you wore a padded bra!!
  48. Cover me boys, I'm going in!!!
  49. Dive! Dive! Dive!
  50. Fire one!
  51. God, that is small!!
  52. Hold on, let me change the channel...
  53. Who smells like fish?
  54. Is it o.k. if my mom (and/or dad) joins in?
  55. Your best-friend does it much better.
  56. Hope you don't mind I left my boots on.
  57. Hurry up, the motor's runnin'.
  58. You're fogging up the wind-sheild.
  59. Can I borrow 5 bucks?
  60. What the hell noise was that?!
  61. Stop moaning, you sound so stupid.
  62. Shut up, bitch! (worse if the girl says it)
  63. You know, you're not really attractive.
  64. I'm sorry, I was not listening.
  65. What, oh yea, I love you too, now let me concentrate!!
  66. Stop interrupting me!!
  67. I have to take a shit.
  68. Did I leave the iron on?
  69. Your breath is funky.
  70. (Start singing green day).
  71. Is it o.k. if I call someone, its o.k. though, keep going....
  72. It's ok honey, I can imagine that its bigger.
  73. God I wish you were a real woman.
  74. Why can't you ever shave your legs?
  75. By the way, when I drove over here, I ran over your dog....
  76. Oh susan, susan... I mean donna.... shit.
  77. Your breast milk is like my mom's....
  78. You're hairy!!
  79. Your "happy trail" led me to a dead end.
  80. Is it o.k. if I never see you again?
  81. Did I forget to tell you I got worms from my cat?
  82. Don't make that face at me!
  83. All of a sudden I have a headache.
  84. You're boring.
  85. I like your tits.
  86. Suck my dick, bitch.
  87. How much do I owe you?
  88. How come we each have a penis?
  89. Of course you can't be on top, you're too fat, you'l kill me!
  90. Your ass is hairy (the guy says this).
  91. Just use your finger, its bigger.
  92. Does your family have to watch?
  93. We'll try again later when you can satisfy me too.
  94. Get off me, I'll do it myself!!!!
  95. Can you hold this sandwhich for me?
  96. You're as soft as a sheep, inside and out.
  97. The only reason i'm doing this is because i'm drunk.
  98. My mom taught me this.....
  99. How cute... peach fuzz!
  100. Damn girl! my tits are bigger than your's!
  101. Should I ask why you're bleeding?
  102. This is my pet rat, larry....
  103. If you can't do it, i'll find someone else who can!
  104. I haven't had this much sex since I was a hooker!
  105. I was once a woman...
  106. Wanna see me take out my glass eye?
  107. No I don't love your mind, I can't grab that!!
  108. Is it o.k. if I tell my friends about this?
  109. I'm sobering up and you're getting ugly!
  110. You wanted me to use a condom?
  111. You're no better than my brother!!
  112. Mooooo!!
  113. Fire in the hole!!!
  114. I wanna see how many quaters I can fit in there.
  115. Hurry up, I'm late for a date.
  116. O.k. start...oh! that feels so... you're done??!!
  117. You ever see basic instinct?
  118. I'm out of condoms, can I use a sock?
  119. Don't squirm, you'll spill my beer.
  120. Did I tell you where my cold sore came from?
  121. You got boogies showing.
  122. (Start reciting the 10 commandments).
  123. I think I just shit on your bed.
  124. Of course I don't love you.
  125. Let me spell it out for you, b-r-e-a-t-h m-i-n-t
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Due to the complexity and difficulty level of their content,each course will accept a
maximum of 8 participants.

TOPIC 1
HOW TO FILL UP THE ICE CUBE TRAYS
Step by step, with slide presentation.

TOPIC 2
THE TOILET PAPER ROLL: DO THEY GROW ON THE HOLDERS?
Round table discussion..

TOPIC 3
IS IT POSSIBLE TO URINATE USING THE TECHNIQUE OF LIFTING THE SEAT UP AND AVOIDING THE FLOOR/WALLS AND NEARBY BATHTUB?
Group Practice.

TOPIC 4
FUNDAMENTAL DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE LAUNDRY HAMPER AND THE FLOOR.
Fteen models F Pictures and explanatory graphics.

TOPIC 5
THE AFTER-DINNER DISHES AND SILVERWARE: CAN THEY LEVITATE AND FLY INTO THE KITCHEN SINK?
Examples on Video.

TOPIC 6
LOSS OF IDENTITY: LOSING THE REMOTE OR ALLOWING OTHERS TO USE IT.
Help line support and support groups.

TOPIC 7
LEARNING HOW TO FIND THINGS, STARTING WITH LOOKING IN THE RIGHT PLACE
INSTEAD OF TURNING THE HOUSE UPSIDE DOWN WHILE SCREAMING.
Open forum.

TOPIC 8 HEALTH WATCH: BRINGING HER FLOWERS IS NOT HARMFUL TO YOUR HEALTH.
Graphics and audio tape.

TOPIC 9 REAL MEN ASK FOR DIRECTIONS WHEN LOST.
Real life testimonials.

TOPIC 10 IS IT GENETICALLY IMPOSSIBLE TO SIT QUIETLY AS SHE PARALLEL PARKS?
Driving simulation.

TOPIC 11
LEARNING TO LIVE: BASIC DIFFERENCES BETWEEN LIVING ALONE OR WITH OTHERS.
Online classes and role playing.

TOPIC 12
HOW TO BE THE IDEAL SHOPPING COMPANION.
Relaxation, exercises, meditation and breathing techniques.

TOPIC 13
HOW TO FIGHT CEREBRAL ATROPHY: REMEMBERING BIRTHDAYS, ANNIVERSARIES, OTHER
IMPORTANT DATES AND CALLING WHEN YOU'RE GOING TO BE LATE.
Cerebral shock therapy sessions and full lobotomies offered.

TOPIC 14
CAR KEYS AND OTHER ITEMS:
Practice on developing skills of putting things back where they belong so
that they can be easily found.

Dating older women is no longer a controversial issue according to a recent study of women in their 40's to 60's. Nearly one third of older women admit to dating men younger than themselves.

What spurred this new openness in dating? Women today hold great jobs and have progressed in their careers, often putting financial independence ahead of the desire for a family unit with children. Women now hold the power that was once only held by men. Men for decades have replaced certain personality and culture cues with financial independence and thus called the shots. Men have been dating younger women for some time, but now the tables have turned and successful older women are catching the attention of younger beaus.

But this isn't all about power and influence. Older women can offer a unique and more mature perspective to dating. While it would be fun to believe that the world looks and acts like the people on the popular television dating shows, the reality is that humans no longer follow the same patterns of tradition and convention that our parents did.

Our nationally high divorce rate leaves many middle aged Americans single at points in their lives when things are going well. Older women dating are often divorced and separated women who possess a different set of goals, responsibilities and views than their younger, never-been-married competition.

As a society we're becoming more discerning of the right qualities and letting ourselves become more relaxed about once taboo issues that really offer no bearing on relationship success. Age, like many other factors such as hair color and place of birth, may not at all interfere with personal connection.

As the hype over this new phenomenon dies down, men dating older women will become as much of a non-issue as women dating older men.

As a young professional, I see the value and excitement in dating older women. I tend to think of myself as more mature and centered than my age related peers. I tend to gravitate towards friends and associates that share my more mature view of the world, and for me, the opportunity to date older women is enticing. I appreciate the maturity and clarity of values and goals and recognize that, on the whole, older women can offer me a new perspective.

If you're a guy who's realized that his maturity is beyond that of the women he's been dating, perhaps changing your age restrictions on your next online dating search is in order. What have you got to lose? Try dating an older woman next time.

How to Bounce Back After a Break Up

How to deal with the devastation of being dumped? Here's How:
  1. Give yourself a break - Your ex is the lowlife.

  2. Stop making excuses. Don't put your life on hold because you feel you can't trust anyone anymore.

  3. Ease yourself back into dating.

  4. Don't jump into bed too quickly. It's better to err on the side of sexual caution.

  5. Don't make someone new pay for the crimes of your ex. Let go of cynicism.

  6. Don't pick someone new just because they're the opposite of your ex. Look for balance.

  7. Learn the art of compromise. High standards shouldn't be confused with the refusal to compromise.
Without risk, there is no reward.

How to Make a Long Distance Love Work


Long distance love can be rocky, but you can still steer the way to your sweetie's heart.

Here's How:

  • 1. Never go into a LD romance with huge expectations.

  • 2. Communication is key. Modern technology makes it easy.

  • 3. Visit as often as you can.

  • 4. A nightly phone call works wonders when someone misses you.

  • 5. Send small, meaningful gifts to show you care.

  • 6. Send letters with cute phrases that only you two share. Creating a special language keeps you close.
TIPS:
You need trust and commitment to make this work.
Go half's on phone bills to cut down costs.
After a visit, plan how often you'll call and visit so you know for sure you'll stay in touch.

How to Get the Most Out of a Blind Date

Every blind date involves equal parts luck and skill. There's not much you can do about the former, but you can take some of the mystery out of a mystery date by learning a few key strategies, Here's How:

  • 1. Keep your expectations realistic. Sure, he or she could be your 'Mr. or Ms. Right', but if you walk in with a fantasy or projection of what you wish your date to be, you're bound to be disappointed.

  • 2. Give your blind date a chance. Okay, so she's wearing a sequined tube top or he parts his hair down the middle. Find out what your date is really like. Worry about a lack of style later.

  • 3. Don't spill all of your problems on a first date. Save that for therapy.

  • 4. Remember that your date is just as scared of you as you are of him/her.

  • 5. Be yourself. If he's a stockbroker or she's a tennis player, don't pretend to follow the market or be an Andre Agassi fan.

  • 6. Always leave yourself an out. Tell your date at the beginning of the date that you have tentative plans with a friend later, just in case you need to use that excuse.


TIPS:
There is nothing desperate about taking your life into your own hands instead of waiting around for things to magically happen.
If you're getting hot and bothered, you've probably found a winner.

How to Make-up After a Fight



Would you rather always be right or be in a good relationship? Here's How:

  • 1. Don't go to bed angry. It's best to agree on this approach before you get into an argument.

  • 2. Make a friendly gesture. If you make the initial overture, it's likely it will be reciprocated.

  • 3. Apologize for something you did in the fight. This opens the door for a real discussion.

  • 4. Call a truce. Agree to think about the problem and discuss it calmly later.

  • 5. Don't give your partner the silent treatment. Ignoring someone only distances you further.

  • 6. Accept your partner's apology.

  • 7. Make a love effort. It's not enough to apologize, but quality time helps you focus on what's great about the relationship as opposed to the fight.

    TIPS: Give someone the space they need to open up.Learn the fine art of compromise. Don't foster jealousy. Invite him/her to go out with your friends.

    How to Tell if He's Serious About You

    You've known him a year, a month, maybe just a week... and while he hasn't said the L word yet, these clues reveal he's smitten. Here's How:

    • 1. You call him at work and his secretary puts you through immediately.

    • 2. He picks you up at the airport.

    • 3. He's comfortable listening to his phone messages in front of you.

    • 4. He refers to the two of you as 'we'.

    • 5. He starts checking in nightly, also calls you at work first thing in the morning.

    • 6. You compliment him on a jacket or shirt and he keeps wearing it.

    • 7. He stocks your favorite wine/snacks/candy.

    • 8. He asks you to go clothes shopping.

    • 9. He screens his calls but picks up when he hears your voice.

    • 10. He brings you soup when you're sick.

    How to Spot a Cheater


    How to decipher if the nagging feelings you have could be real or imagined. Here's How:

    • 1. Your partner starts exercising vigorously and getting in shape for no reason.

    • 2. The moment he/she gets home after yet 'another late night at the office,' Your partner jumps right into the shower.

    • 3. The moment your partner gets out of the shower, he/she's unusually attentive, considerate and oddly interested in the details of your day.

    • 4. At parties, you are introduced as a friend.

    • 5. You are given needlessly detailed explanations of his or her whereabouts.

    • 6. You receive 'just to check in' calls with compulsive frequency.

    • 7. Your partner suddenly wants to have sex with you more than ever. Or.

    • 8. He/she loses interest in sex with you.

    • 9. Your partner now keeps track of the contents of his/her pockets.

    • 10. His/her side of nightly business calls are a series of monosyllabic responses.


    TIPS: Better to confront him or her than silently stew.

    dating services are fun places to meet new people, and the friends you'll meet online can be the most loving you'll ever know. Chatting online or through email is safe, but meeting someone in person that you've met on the net for the first time needs a bit of common sense.

    1.  Use your instincts. We know you want to trust everyone and believe everything they say, especially when they're saying what you want to hear. If it's too good to be true, it sometimes is. More often than not, the person you've met online is just the same in person, but take your time to get to know her/him/them.

    2.  Remain anonymous. Until you know that the person or persons you're interested in are the sort you want to meet, remain anonymous. Most online dating services allow you to use a nickname and send mail using only the nickname and your dating service address. Don't be pressured to "send mail to my private email" because you'll be giving our your personal details in your return address.

    3.  Remain wary. Don't believe everything you see on screen. If you have any doubts, ask questions. If there is even the slightest bit of doubt, move on. There are SO many people out there that could make you happy, so don't take a chance.

    4.  Don't be pushed! If you're not ready to meet someone, don't be coerced into it. You'll be upset and you might be putting yourself at risk. So what if you're accused of "not being real", at least you'll feel good until you ARE ready to meet in person.

    5.  Spend time online. If you're not 100% certain this person is for real, spend time online chatting or chat through email until you're sure.

    6.  Talk on the phone. You can learn a lot about someone by talking over the phone. To ensure your anonymity, give a mobile phone number or use a pay phone. If you hear anything that gives you doubts, don't meet.

    7.  Photos. It's true that a picture is worth 1000 words. It doesn't tell the whole story, but you can tell whether you're physically attracted to this person. If the photo looks too good to be true, ask for a photo to be taken somewhere you suggest. If it can't be done, it might not be their photo!

    8.  Personality flaws. If your new friend displays controlling behavior (needs to know where you are, is unhappy when you do things away from the computer), shows anger or anything else that makes you feel uncomfortable, then this person is not going to make you happy. If you're an outgoing, friendly man, a clinging, dependent woman will drive you up the wall.

    9.  Be safe. When you decide to meet for the first time, tell someone where you're going. Take your own car, public transportation or ask a friend to take you and pick you up. These security measures won't last forever and if he or she is put off by them, then tell them to find someone else. There is never going to be only one person that you must have in order to be happy.

    10.  Always be alert. Safety precautions are not only for meeting new friends from the Internet. These guidelines are good ideas whether you're meeting someone you've met at a concert, in a pub or at the grocery store. Just be careful out there.


    Bottom Line? Girls really have no problems when it comes to getting replies. You'll see what I mean when you start placing your personals. Guys are always the ones that complain about never getting a response to thier personal ads. (You should see these ads, then you'd know why). We've helped many a single man get it together and have countless relationships to our matchmaking credit. It all about getting in a staying active. Check out the chat rooms, you'll have a blast! Take time with your profile. If you post provocative pictures, expect, and don't be all pissy when you get provocative responses.Just use your female intuition and you'll be just fine. :)

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Totally Free Adult Personal Ads, you say? You bet, oh doubtful one! Within the "partners in love" dating networks, are a dozen totally free dating and singles resource sites with internal personals where single sufers can post picture profiles, search the ads, and send unlimited messages without even having to register. Just zero in on the picture profiles that tickle your fancy, and drop'em a line! NO strings, NO restrictions, No catches or gimmicks. ALL Free - ALL the time.

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Free versus Totally Free Personal Ads or Dating Sites?

Defining "FREE" Adult Personal Ads - I'm a firm believer in online personal ads, and found my true love via Internet dating sites, but remember the confusion and frustration of clicking on sites claiming Totally Free Personal Ads only to find out that wasn't the case. For the most part, the majority of sites claim Free Memberships when marketing which can also be misconstrued as meaning that all site features are free. To make it clear, let's define the industry standards of the word "Free" being used.
  • Free Adult Personal Ads - Typically means that it's free to join, place personal profiles, and free to search the ads. However, different sites require various paid upgrades to use advanced site features such as chatrooms and sending messages.

  • Free Adult Dating Site Trial - Usually means that singles can join the site with no restrictions using all site functions for a predetermined amount of time. Your profile can remain in the database, but your downgraded to basic memberships after the trial.

  • Totally Free Adult Personal Ads - "Should" mean that all site features are available to all singles with no restrictions, no registration, (to grab that email), and no limits on sending messages. All of the above listed free personals sites meet this definition.
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